Beyond the Stockdale Paradox

I was reading some old book notes when I came across the notes written for Good to Great by Jim Collins, where he mentions the Stockdale Paradox.

During his time as a prisoner of war in Vietnam, Stockdale endured immense suffering and was held captive for over seven years. Collins interviewed Stockdale and discovered a fascinating contrast in the prisoners’ mindsets. While some captives maintained hope and believed they would be freed by a certain date, their optimism often led to disappointment and despair when those expectations were not met. On the other hand, Stockdale observed that those who survived the ordeal were the ones who faced the brutal facts of their situation head-on. They acknowledged the harsh realities of their captivity while still maintaining faith in their eventual liberation. This duality—confronting the brutal facts while maintaining unwavering faith—became known as the Stockdale Paradox.

I find this idea powerful, but I also think it can be an oversimplification in the study of human endurance.

My personal view is that it is very difficult to capture the real thought process of people who are passing through extreme adversity. No one principle or formula can be sufficient for every person, every wound, every tragedy, and every test.

When we look at Islamic history, we find many examples of extreme suffering faced by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and his noble companions. Their trials were not minor. They endured physical torture, mental pressure, family pressure, fear, hunger, poverty, social boycott, migration, loss of loved ones, and years of uncertainty. And yet what helped them endure was totally different, and I believe much more powerful, than the Stockdale paradox.

For someone unfamiliar with Islam, it may be tempting to fit these examples into the definition of the Stockdale Paradox: facing brutal facts while keeping faith in eventual success. But that, to me, stops us from going deeper into the real source of strength.

The first reason that I can think of that helped the Beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and the Noble Companions endure was the realization that what they were fighting and suffering for was much bigger than their lives and the lives of their families.

The second reason was that their leader, the Noble Prophet ﷺ, was standing beside them and in almost all manners, suffering more pain than all of them. That may also be a vital lesson on leadership.

The third reason was that they knew if Allah has willed certain conditions on them, then He is their Master, and they accepted all decisions of their Master. They were guided by the Final Prophet Muhammad ﷺ to never ask for suffering, but once it comes, to be steadfast.

The fourth reason, which I keep coming back to, is Aakhira or the hereafter. That no one would be able to escape the day of judgement when the deeds of every person who was given life in the world will be evaluated. No one will be able to escape punishment. Even death would not be a savior for the never-ending punishment for those who have broken the commandments of Allah Almighty.

I do admire Jim Collins’ ability to research, study, and extract lessons from people and organizations, but I often wish that authors who spend years, sometimes decades, studying success, failure, resilience, leadership, and human behavior would also study the guidance given by Allah, the Creator of the universe and everything within it, on these topics. Because real solutions lie in the guidance of Allah.

May Allah grant us all wisdom, foresight, patience, and steadfast faith.


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The Four Noble Traits of Hazrat Jaffar Tayyar ؓ

The four noble traits that made Hazrat Jafar Tayyar ؒ beloved to Allah, even before the advent of Islam (during the age of Jahiliyyah).

  1. Avoidance of Alcohol. He says that he never went near alcohol because he saw that alcohol destroys intellect.  
  2. Avoidance of Idolatry. He says that he avoided idol worship because he saw that idols could neither provide benefit nor harm.
  3. Avoidance of Adultery. He says that because he possessed a strong sense of honor regarding his wife and his daughters, he never committed adultery.
  4. Avoidance of Lying. He says that he never lied because he regarded lying as an act beneath the person of a high character and an act lacking any moral worth.

The importance of the traits, besides being beloved to Allah, can be assessed from the fact that they were specially revealed by Allah on Prophet Muhammad ﷺ through Hazrat Jibrael ؑ

In my journey through life, I’ve realized that character isn’t built all at once; it’s assembled piece by piece from the virtues we choose to honor. I blog about these traits to ‘collect’ them and try to integrate them into my own life and identity. For me, Hazrat Jafar Tayyar’s ؒ story is a reminder that true integrity begins long before the world notices.

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On Reading Books To Gain Knowledge

Introduction

To realize The Pakistan Dream you need to gain a lot of knowledge and develop many new skills. To do that effectively you would need to read many books. Some books might be assigned to you as part of a college/university course while you might choose others to develop your understanding in a particular area. For you to read, understand, and remember hundreds of books that you will read throughout your life, you would need to develop your reading skills. In this blog, I will be sharing some tips on how you can do that.

How to classify the books you want to read?

While you might not have much say about books that are assigned to you as compulsory reading, there should be a method to select the books that you choose to read. Irrespective of the classification of books in libraries and bookstores, it will be better to categorize your reading list into categories that are meant to answer the basic question of ‘Why you want to read a particular book’. ‘Adler Mortimer’ in ‘How to Read a Book’ categorizes them into

Books meant to entertain you. These would be fiction novels of various genres like fantasy, drama, mystery, poetry, etc. They are meant to be read to enhance your imagination and emotions. I also include non-fiction books on history, politics, biographies, etc. in this category, since I read them for entertainment.

Books that are meant to provide information. These are the books, magazines, or newspaper articles that provide the latest information and updates about topics that you already understand and have some level of expertise. In my case, articles and books on Information Technology, Leadership and Management, etc. are the ones which I read to update myself as I already have considerable understanding about these subjects.

Books that are meant to enhance knowledge. These are books on topics that you do not understand e.g. for me, these would be books on financial investments as I am interested in increasing my understanding of the subject but currently know way too less about it.

About the books read to enhance your knowledge

For the books that you read to enhance your knowledge, it is important to remember the quote of Francis Bacon in his essay ‘Of Studies’ where he mentions that some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested.

It will be good to understand what is meant by taste, swallowing, and digesting a book.

Tasting a book means a superficial reading of the book. You skim through the book rapidly picking up the main ideas or some practical tips. You can highlight the important parts. Nowadays with the introduction of ChatGPT, I just ask the AI engine to summarize the book and highlight the important parts.  

Swallowing a book would mean more intense reading to try and grasp the ideas and arguments presented in the book.

Digesting a book would mean not only reading the book but also contemplating it. Such books present ideas that are new to you possessing the ability to evolve and upgrade your thinking. Generally, such books would give you a new way of thinking or even motivate you to alter your lifestyle.

Increasing your net worth

Your knowledge will increase when you read books on areas that you know nothing or little about. The more varied areas you gain understanding and knowledge about, the more connections you would be able to form in your brain and come up with better solutions to problems that you or society faces. Reading such books would be the difference between you and your peers who prefer to read only novels, newspapers, or worse – social media feeds. Let me give you a simple example.

Suppose you are a fresh graduate of computer sciences with a major in software development. Besides your knowledge of software development and deployment, if you can invest time to read a book and learn about the basics of accounting and finance, your net worth will increase immediately. As it makes you capable of either making a new or understanding existing software on finance and investments, much more easily than your peers who only know software development. Software such as SAP or Oracle Financials are critical for the operations of major corporations worldwide and thus would open a lot more options for you in the market than your peers, hence increasing your net worth. All of this is because you chose to spend a few weeks enhancing your knowledge about accounting and finance by reading, understanding, and remembering a few books on the topic.

The difficulty in reading books to enhance knowledge

Reading such books, though, would pose the highest level of challenge. They would require more time and effort to read, understand, and remember. A reading session of such books should leave you more tired than reading sessions of books that you read for amusement or information.

The cumbersome process of reading, understanding, and remembering such books would mean two things (a) you would have to select the right books (b) your reading process must be different than the reading process of novels and newspapers.

The whole process of reading, understanding, and remembering books might take you anywhere from a week to a month to a year. This is a considerable investment of your time; therefore, you should be careful not to select books that would waste your time and effort.

Similarly, the reading process by which you read books to develop your knowledge must be different from the books you are reading just for pleasure. The process of reading books to enhance your knowledge would require you to take notes, re-read passages multiple times, and read supporting literature. Something which you would never do when you read a novel or a newspaper. That is why ‘Adler Mortimer’ mentions in ‘How to Read a Book’ that these would be the books that would leave you the most fatigued.

In the subsequent sections, I will be giving some tips on selecting books and the reading process.

How can you select books?

Books can be recommended to you, enforced on you (as part of a curriculum or course) or you might develop a curiosity to read a book. You might also want to read books to develop an understanding of a specific area. Unless the book is part of compulsory reading you have a choice whether to read the book or not.

As mentioned in the last section; reading, understanding, and remembering, or in other words digesting books require a significant investment of your time, therefore it would be better if you ask a few questions before you start reading a book.

Find out what is the Book About

When you go to a bookstore or a library, you see many books. Some with shiny front covers and/or titles that are designed to attract you. Before you give in to their charms, it will be good to check what the book is about. You can find that out by

  1. Read the Book Title, Subtitle, and Table of contents. Skim through the Introduction/Preface of the book. After doing that ask the question, are you still interested?
  2. If you do not have a specific book in mind but rather want to increase your knowledge in a particular area, find the best books in that area and read their reviews. Give weightage to reviews by specialists in that area. Are they recommending some other books? You can also consult specialists of the field that you know on the books that they recommend.

Find out about the Author.

  1. Who wrote the book?
  2. What is his worldview?
  3. What is his expertise on the topic? 

Why Would You Want to Read The Book

Finally, ask these questions to understand why you want to read the book.

  1. Why do you want to read the book? For Amusement, Information, or Understanding?
  2. Which existing or future role would the book help you in? Are you about to move from a technical to a managerial role? Are you about to get married or have a child?
  3. Do you want to extract practical tips from it or do you want to enhance your understanding and increase your net worth?
  4. Are you interested in critiquing the book and challenging the author and his assumptions?

Asking these questions would help you decide not only whether you want to read the book or not, but also how fast you want to read it and what your reading process is going to be. This would lay the groundwork for the next section on ‘How to Read’ this particular book.

How to read a book to understand and gain knowledge

As explained above, for the books you are reading to enhance your knowledge and understanding you need a method to read such books so that you can maximize the knowledge that you extract out of the book. Below are some guidelines that might help you out in reading, understanding, and remembering what you read in these books.

Understand the structure

Start by reading the title, subtitle, table of contents, and preface of the book. Make sure that you understand how the book is arranged and the various topics and sub-topics it attempts to cover. This would make a mind map or skeleton of the book in your mind. For complicated books, you might want to write the structure/skeleton in a separate notebook and keep on adding to it, as explained later.

Trying to understand the structure may also help you in finding out which portions (if not all) are more relevant to you.

Understanding Important words, terms, and passages

Important Words and Terms. When you come across important words or terms, make sure that you understand their meaning and the context in which the writer has used them. Do not proceed before you are sure that you understand them. A word can have multiple meanings. The author might be using the word with a meaning that is different from what you know it to be. The author might be using it as jargon, or he might not agree with the way that the word is generally defined. Good authors explain the meaning of such words and the context in which they have used them. Therefore, it is important to read such words and terms carefully and be sure that you understand how the author wishes to use them.

You can find important words and terms by noticing that.

  1. The author has highlighted such words.
  2. The author is arguing about the general definition of the word.
  3. The author has used the words or terms in the title and the preface.

Important Sentences and Passages. Note the important sentences and paragraphs and ensure that you understand them before you proceed. Important sentences or passages might be the ones where the author is

  1. Providing a solution or some practical step(s) to overcome problems.
  2. Have mentioned something that is most relevant to you.
  3. Trying to form an argument and providing his understanding of it.
  4. Giving evidence to prove his argument.

You can judge if you have understood these important passages if,

  1. You can summarize them in your own words.
  2. You can explain the author’s arguments to another person? Imagine yourself in front of a class and explaining the topic.

If you cannot then it means that you might not have understood this important passage and should be re-reading the passage as many times as it is necessary.

Note Taking – Maintain the structure.

Note-taking will be the most important step if you want to remember what you have read and understood in a book. Therefore, it is important to start by creating a mind map of the structure of the book in a separate notebook or blank paper. You might want to create some additional maps as well e.g. when I read books on history, I tend to make different kinds of notes e.g. world map of the time, a family tree telling me, who is related to who, and an important dates e.g. date of the war, date of a birth or a death, etc.

Once a structure or a mind map is created, you need to keep it updated as you read the book. You can update it by adding (a) subheadings (b) arguments/propositions (c) important paragraphs

This structure or mind map will serve as your index and might look different from the index or table contents provided by the author. Make sure that what you add to the mind map are just single words or terms or very short sentences. The real meaning is to be understood and not be written in the mind map.

While reading you might get a lot of thoughts or arguments for/against the passages you are reading. You can capture your thoughts in a separate notebook, but always, focus more on understanding the author’s POV. Make sure that your notes are written separately in your notebook as at this point you do not want to mix your inputs with what the author is trying to tell you.

Okay to Skim through some parts

Some passages in the book might not be relevant to you or your understanding. It is okay to skip them to save time and effort. But it is a good idea to add the passage/heading/chapter that you are skipping in the mind map or the structure of the book that you are maintaining in a separate notebook. I generally tend to avoid but if you want you can mention the reason you are skipping the part. I usually use a red pen for such portions and do not usually write the reason, since I would be able to tell by just reading the topic name that I have put.

Completing the Reading

  1. Upon completion of the reading, review the structure or the mind map of the book that you have been updating throughout the reading of the book. Are you able to understand all the parts mentioned in the structure? If not, read those parts again.
  2. If you can understand, try to write a short unity statement. e.g. The book believes xxxx is a problem and provides yyyy, zzzz, aaaa as arguments. Finally, it gives the proposal and solution of pppp and qqqqq to solve those problems.
  3. Writing the unity statement would help you summarize the book into a very short passage of your own words. When you can do that, you have understood the gist of the book. This would help you in (a) Explaining what the book is about when someone asks you about what you have learned from the book, and (b) Making you remember what the book is about so that you may refer to it, anytime you wish to in the future.
  4. Preserve the mind map and the unity statement in your file (online or physical) as a note. Make sure that you read these notes frequently to preserve the message of the book in your memory.

Some additional activities after completing a book

The following are some additional steps that you might consider taking once you have completed the book. These steps would help you in re-enforcing your understanding and help you remember the key areas from the book.

Critique the Book

  1. Review the mind map, unity statement, and other notes that you might have written regarding the book. Ask yourself are all the propositions and arguments presented in the book explained and answered? If some are missing or you do not remember, read the marked passages again, using the structure you have been maintaining.
  1. Find out which arguments the author failed to answer, and which problems were not solved. Or not solved to your satisfaction.
  1. Do you agree with the arguments, proposals/solutions provided in the book? If not, why not? Write it, in your own words.
  2. Make sure to clearly state the argument and the provided evidence. (or opinion)
  3. Provide your counterargument with evidence.

More Reading?

Maybe the book has not fully satisfied your thirst for knowledge on a particular topic. Assess whether the missing arguments can be answered from other books. If yes which ones? Are you interested in reading them?

Some books provide references to other books as well. They are mentioned in the Bibliography or footnotes. I would normally highlight books that I am interested in reading later. It would be a good time to do some research on these books and decide whether you want to read them or not. 

Extract From Your Notes

  1. Extract quotes that you were moved by and write them in your Quotations Notebook. I maintain a separate notebook where I write quotations, lyrics, stanzas, etc. I read passages from my quotation notebook frequently. It is surreal.
  2. Extract practical steps that you feel would be helpful to solve a problem that you are facing. Arrange them into a checklist or a ToDo list.
  3. Extract the list of articles and books that you found in the book that intrigued you and add them in your ‘ToRead’ list. 

Write

Write an article/blog/book about the book. You have already written a lot of notes, so would not have to start from zero. In addition, you can mention

  1. What you have learned from the book.
  2. What you have implemented from the book.
  3. What you find missing in the book.
  4. What parts do you disagree with? What is your supporting evidence?

Share your work with people that you know would be able to provide good feedback and engage in discussion.

Conclusion

The steps might seem to be too much work but are necessary if you want to read, understand, and remember the important books that you read to understand. As you practice reading more and more complicated books, these steps will become second nature to you.

However, sometimes you might be tempted to skip all or some of the steps. It is okay if you do that. I do it as well. Sometimes some books are just too attractive to ignore. For such books going through the book selection process seems to be a waste of time. Give into the resistance and dive into such books head-on. If you wish, ignore even the note-taking and mind maps. Just read. If you feel the book is worthy enough you can always read it again to take notes.

I also find it helpful to make checklists of various things that I do repeatedly in my life. Checklists help me optimize the action. It also helps me to delegate the action to someone else by sharing my checklist. Book reading is also an action that we do repeatedly. So why not make a few checklists on ‘How to Select Books’, ‘How to Take Notes’, and ‘How to Read Books’? The good thing about checklists is that they are your processes and do not have to be perfect. You can always add/remove items. e.g. your checklist on ‘How to Select Books’ can start with two steps (1) Pick a Book (2) Read the Book. Later you can add more steps that you find relevant to your reading process.

Finally, I would say that if in a year you can read anywhere from 2 to 12 books to enhance your knowledge and understanding about areas which you knew little or nothing about, just imagine where your overall knowledge and understanding would be. Remember it is not about how many books you read; it is about how many you remember.


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What is the Purpose of Life?

Why we need to know the answer

Imagine you are on a train, but you don’t know where it’s going. You don’t know why you are on it, or what you’re supposed to do when the train stops. You are sitting there, watching the scenery pass by, wondering what’s next. That’s what it feels like to live a life without purpose.

You might be traveling on a luxury train and have pleasant company and great food. Even the scenes might be breathtaking. But every few minutes you would be reminded of the fact that you don’t know why you are on the train. Who put you on it, where are you headed, and what you are going to do when the train stops? These questions would constantly bother you and beg you to answer them, no matter how luxurious your ride is.

Now imagine, you have the answer to all these questions, but the train ride is not very comfortable. The AC is not working, the food is not good, and unpleasant people surround you. But deep inside you would have peace because you know that the train would eventually stop bringing you to a destination of your choosing.

In the first instance, even with all the comforts you would feel uneasy, while in the second case with all the hardships you will have warmth and comfort in your heart, and you would be at peace. That is why it is so important to find the answer to the question of the purpose of our life; why we are alive?

Man’s Pursuit for Answers 

This is the reason why man has always tried to answer the question; who gave us life and why? In their pursuit, different men took different paths. Some tried to create the answers and ended up creating man-made religions and philosophies that had varying degrees of popularity and acceptance. But such philosophies, religions, or ways of life, had a severe disadvantage. They were restricted by the capacity of the human mind and intellect. As a result, they were easily challenged, modified, or rejected by humans with a higher intellect or information.  

The other path was to find rather than create the answers. This path started with the understanding that ‘someone’ put us on this earth and gave us life for a purpose. That the thing we call ‘nature’ is also a creation just like us. Created to ensure life. These people found answers to their questions in ‘Abrahamic Religions’ like Islam, Christianity, and Judaism. All of these religions provide not abstract but concrete answers to these questions i.e. ‘Life has been given by God’ for ‘Gaining HIS proximity and acceptance’. Humans do not create these answers but rather are told by God HIMSELF through HIS Prophets (messengers) and Holy Books.

How Islam Defines the Purpose of Life 

Islam has not only given these answers in the Quran and Sunnah but has also taken many steps further. It has told us who God is and what are HIS traits. It has told us that the purpose of our creation is to ‘gain HIS proximity by worshipping HIM’. And the reason that HE created ‘life and death’ was to judge who performs the most noble deeds. Islam has also listed the acts of Worship and clearly defined how they are to be performed. It also classifies deeds into Good and Bad.

We are not left at the mercy of ‘Abstractions’ and ‘Interpretations’. What has been defined is to be followed. What has not been defined has been deemed not important to the ultimate purpose of life. So it can be interpreted in whatever way we see fit and fruitful.

Impact on my life

For me, knowing the answer to the question of the Purpose of Life through Islam is not only comforting but also keeps me focused. I understand why I worship Allah and recite the Quran. Why I got married and have children, why do I need to work and earn for my family, and also focus on the upbringing of my children? Why I need to be as productive as I can be and why I need to focus on my health and fitness. Why do I also need to go out and enjoy the various experiences that this world has to offer with my family and friends? The answer to all these questions is that Islam has categorized them as acts of ‘Worship’. And I need to perform them to gain proximity to Allah my creator.

Knowing these answers also insulates me from hardships and suffering. Islam tells me that hardships and suffering are also created to gain proximity to Allah. This journey of life on earth has to end one day. So it does not matter how luxurious or not the journey is. Eventually, when my life ends, based on how successful I have been in fulfilling the ultimate purpose, I shall enter a life full of luxuries that will never end. That life, the destination, is much more important.

Conclusion

The biggest question about life can be answered in a single sentence:

‘We are created by Allah, for HIS worship, so that our deeds become noble and worthy of acceptance by HIM, earning us HIS proximity and acceptance’.


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Why Must We Dream?

The dreams we have at night may be random and fleeting, but the dreams we have while awake are the ones that matter most. They are the embodiment of our deepest aspirations and desires, and they are what make us human giving us a sense of purpose and driving us forward, even when things get tough.

Dreams can be noble or vile. Noble dreams chase equality and brotherhood bringing people together. Vile dreams chase money and fame driving people away from each other. Noble dreams cause the progress and development of humanity. Vile dreams cause their destruction through wars and famine.

For many people, the dream is to make money. But they fail to realize that beyond a certain amount, money would stop providing any additional value to the quality of their life. That is why making money should never be the sole objective of our lives, rather, it should be treated as a tool that would help us to realize loftier and bigger dreams.

Humans have been given a mind to think and a heart to feel. Using both together can help us craft bigger and nobler dreams.

Dreams and their impact

Noble dreams have the power to unite people. Consider Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream which positively impacted the lives of countless Americans and continues to do so.

“I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood”

Martin Luther King Jr.

His dream centered on equality and brotherhood and not money or fame.

In our own history, Allama Iqbal presented a vision for the Muslims of the subcontinent.

I would like to see the Punjab, Northwest Frontier Province, Sind, and Baluchistan amalgamated into a single state. Self-government within the British Empire or without the British Empire, the formation of a consolidated North-West Indian Muslim state appears to be the final destiny of the Muslims, at least of North-West India

Allama Muhammad Iqbal

This dream, too, was not driven by financial gain or fame but rather by the aspiration to grant Muslims in the subcontinent the freedom to practice their religion and way of life without fear of persecution and hatred.

Dreams as tools to fight adversities.

Bigger dreams often come with greater challenges and hardships, yet they also give greater strength. The struggles of the black community in America, and the millions of lives lost during the partition of the subcontinent tell us that while the adversities were high, so was the willingness to sacrifice. When these communities compared the hardships required for the potential future, the sacrifices needed seemed inconsequential.

Nelson Mandela was given life imprisonment in 1964. During his trial he said

“I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”

Nelson Mandela

Dreams and their everlasting impact

Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated in 1968 and Allama Iqbal died in 1938, well before they could witness the realization of their dreams. Both these examples are proof that when one’s dream is driven by a purpose greater than personal wealth or fame, the dream stays alive long after their physical presence has departed.

Dreams give us a bigger purpose.

Dreams give purpose and meaning to our lives and stop us from being influenced by petty emotions.

Nelson Mandela’s remarkable journey serves as a clear example. After spending 27 years in prison, one might have anticipated a thirst for revenge upon his release. Yet he writes in his book ‘Long Walk to Freedom.’

“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be in prison.”

Mandela chose to forgive, recognizing that his dream of a democratic South Africa where everyone enjoyed equal rights transcended personal emotions of hatred or revenge. Four years later, South Africa witnessed its first multiracial elections, which wouldn’t have been possible if Mandela’s actions were driven by hatred or revenge.

Conclusion

We might not be Allama Iqbal or Nelson Mandela, but we too can envision a future that we want to see. Maybe our names would remain unknown, but deep inside we would be satisfied that we lived a life of greater significance and provided more than we took.

“We all dream while we sleep, it is about time that we have a dream that will not let us sleep.”

Dr. Abdul Bari

This blog borrows a lot from the lectures on Strategic Visions delivered by Mr. Suleiman Ahmar, which are freely available on YouTube.



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